On Thursday, I came into my work and the women I trade shifts with was all talks about this article she read in the paper that day. Now usually I don’t get hyped up about the paper. I basically only read it for the horoscope, but this article was important to me and this class. Ask Amy seems to be a column where you ask Amy questions and she answers them for you. So an advice column. On this particular day a man was talking to Amy about the fact that his wife was “addicted to the internet”. He goes on to tell you that she wakes up at 6 AM, spends hours on the computer, goes to work, comes home and is on the internet until 1 AM. He said that the problem has only gotten worse due to the fact that she got a phone that now has internet access. (Mom prefers Facebook over face time)
Amy said that the husband and his family need to basically have an intervention on the wife. They do not know what she is doing on the internet this whole time. And she even acknowledged that being “addicted to the internet” is a serious and legitimate illness. She told the family to consider putting the wife into therapy.
This article very much intrigued me. This is exactly what we are talking about. People are constantly connected to the internet. It is not only annoying but it is costing people valuable relationships. (This couple has been married 30 years and this is becoming a big hang up.) We are becoming extremely interpersonal. I know that I personally have issues with concentration. If I have the internet up, it is almost impossible for me to achieve anything. I am constantly checking facebook, even though there is nothing new going on. I will look at Perez for hours, reading about celebrity gossip. In the end, I know a lot about people around me. But I have usually accomplished nothing. I think everyone is so connected they almost don’t even realize they are having problems. Which is a very scary thought.